Discoveries in the Sand – Episode 2

February 26, 2009 at 3:06 pm (Books, Expatriate, Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, Television, Weight Loss)

Some more items of epiphany and realization on this journey of self-discovery…

1.  Asian Pears. – Mmm…Mmm…Good!  At least to my palate.  A mix of savory and sweet.  And from a WeightWatchers point-of-view, they are a fruit serving, packed with a lot of nutritional value, which doesn’t cost a single point! (Multiple servings may cost points, though.)  They’re a tad more expensive in the US, but worth it.  A real bargain!

2.  Not all British television shows are great TV. – For every Masterpiece Theatre or MI:5 (Spooks in the UK – obvious why they changed the name in the US) there’s an The IT Crowd or Teenaged Kicks…truly awful shows clogging the crowded airwaves like election year campaign commercials without the passion – and even less intellectual honesty.  Then there are the marginal shows like Mumbai Calling, which have some truly marvelous moments mixed with inanity.  Then, of course, there are the niche shows, such as Dr. Who and Torchwood – both of which are among my favorites.  I also recommend you take a look at Hei$t should it come on in the US; although, I understand Amercian TV has pretty much stolen it and turned it into Leverage, which I hear is pretty good, too.

3.  Hello, my name is Greg, and I am a bookaholic. – I love books.  They are comforting to me.  I’ll buy books no matter where I am…proven by the close to one hundred (am I past that number, now?) I’ve acquired since coming here to KSA.  Some of them I actually read.  Some of them are for reference for my job.  Some…well, I really don’t know why…other than the sense of ease they provide me when they surround me.  Keep your fracking Kindles!!

4. Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert are as popular in the Middle East as they are in the US. – The political humor of these two seems to transcend cultural barriers.  Their shows, during the last year, have become staples of the Showtime satellite network, one of the largest providers of satellite television throughout the region.  Where they struggled to fill the 9pm – 10pm timeslot the first year-and-a-half I was here, these two fake news shows have found their home and made the programming manager in Dubai very happy.

5. Battlestar Galactica is great television even if it’s not in English. – Throughout the week, I can watch BSG in German, Russian, Arabic, and English.  I have seen the first three seasons (in English), which comprise most of the episodes available over here.  Even without the English, I have found myself captivated by the intense drama of the scenes unfolding on-screen.  How many TV shows can make such a boast?  Sure, I am biased.  I, along with Rolling Stone magazine, consider it the best show on TV.  But, any show where the acting doesn’t require a language to be conveyed is a show worth watching.  I can’t wait to watch Season Four!  Thank you, Cristina.  :-)

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Dropping The Weight

February 20, 2009 at 9:43 am (Expatriate, Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, Weight Loss)

As I’ve indicated in a previous post, I have lost twenty pounds.  This is intentional, and I am doing it via WeightWatchers Online.

This is my second round with WW.  The first time, five years ago, I lost 67 pounds with them.  Unfortunately, I became very involved with a bar league for playing poker, and I abandoned the good, healthy nutrition principles taught by WW, which do work, for fried bar food and quality beer.  Needless to say, but I will, I gained it ALL back.  I still like quality beer, but I’ve given up on the fried bar food.

I’ll post my progress from time-to-time.  I’m also taking some photos of my journey, which I’ll try to post.

Downward to success!

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Back To KSA

February 20, 2009 at 9:33 am (Expatriate, Oregon, Riyadh, Saudi Arabia)

The trip to Oregon was uneventful, and that suited me just fine.  A personal video screen in the back of the seat back in front of me, and my iPod, kept me quite busy.  So, the time passed pretty quickly.  All 22 hours of it.

OTOH, it took me three days to get back to KSA.

The day I had to go back, Cristina dropped me off at the airport.  I got the sense that something was amiss by the way the two young women were talking to a couple of other passengers.  When I heard the phrases “San Francisco Airport” and “delay,” I got a tad worried.

Sure enough, she asked me if I was flying through San Francisco.  I said, “Yes.”  She grimaced and said, “Okay, let’s see what we can do.  SFO is closed to most incoming traffic due to fog.  They only have one runway going.  You are probably going to miss your connecting flight.”

I was not amused.  Leaving for months at a time is not fun for me on the best of days.  Leaving when my mother-in-law was in the hospital, and my wife was completely consumed with assuring her care, trebled the anxiety I felt.

The woman spent quite a few minutes trying to figure out how to get me out and back to Saudi Arabia that day, but she finally looked at me and said, “I am sorry, but the best I can do is get you on a flight out of SFO tomorrow morning.  You can either stay here an extra day or you can go to SFO when they open the other runway up at about Noon and try there.”  I wavered.  It would have been great to spend another day at home.  But, goodbyes always suck, and as I said before, Cristina was very busy caring for her mom.  If I went to San Francisco, there was an outside chance I might get some sort of connector.  If you’re there, in the major airport, they can do a lot more for you than if you’re at a small regional airport, where the weather might delay you even further.  As hard as it was to do, I opted to go on to SFO.

My plane took off as I walked from my arrival gate to my original gate.  I once had a similar experience back in the mid-80s, when a huge snowstorm delayed planes for hours at Chicago O’Hare.  That time, I sat on the tarmac waiting for a gate to open up, while my plane to Syracuse lifted into the air.  It’s not a pleasant feeling.

So, I made my way to a ticket booth.  Here’s a tip for the inexperienced air traveler.  Often, though not always, at the larger airports, airlines have ticket/information counters inside the security area.  If you have a connection problem, you often don’t have to exit the security area to make changes.  In this case, the United counter inside the security area was empty, and I had to exit to find a ticket clerk.

As it turned out, the first, and only, flight I could book out was early the next morning, to Washington Dulles, where I would have to take a Saudi Airlines plane back to Riyadh.  This was a painful blow.  I really like flying Lufthansa.  They provide excellent service, and unlike some American airlines, everything is included in the price of the ticket – including alcohol.  There would be no alcohol on the Saudi flight.  Not that I drink that much; but, still…the option was there.   And, since it was a weather delay, United would not spring for a hotel room.  They would, however, hook me up with a service that specialized in setting up stranded travelers at a discount rate.

I didn’t want to spend a night in SFO, so I booked a room through the discount agency and stayed at one of the nearby airport hotels (the name is escaping me right now, so that is why I am not being specific).  The room was nice enough, and it was great to get a good night of sleep; I’d had a very late night the night before – packing.  The food was good and EXPENSIVE.  And, it was 12 miles from downtown.  So, a cab ride would have been prohibitive, and I didn’t feel like navigating BART.  I just kicked back, napped, and relaxed.

The trip to Dulles was uneventful.  No food, unless I wanted to buy one of a selection of overpriced box lunches/breakfasts.  I didn’t.  Luckily, I am an early bird, and I actually arrive in time to get through security in a timely fashion.  I hate to be rushed.  So, I had eaten a good breakfast a diner in the airport.

I wish I had known there were agents manning the counter at the gate from which the Saudia plane would leave.  But, I didn’t, and I was very short on time to go exploring. So, I ended up having to leave the security area there, too, in order to find the Saudia ticket counter.  When I got there, a very pretty and pleasant lady informed me that, even though I had a ticket in hand, there was no reservation for me in the system.  She told me not to worry, that the flight was not full; so it wouldn’t be a problem.  But, it did take several minutes to fix this matter.   Then, I had to go through Dulles security.

Dulles security is a pain-in-the-tookus.  There is a huge volume of people, and the folks who engineered the lines never visited Disneyland to learn how to handle large groups of people queuing up for a ride.  It took close to 30 minutes to pass from one side to the other.  Then, I had to ride the shuttle from one terminal to another, which took another five or six minutes.  I kept looking at my watch, and my plane was scheduled to leave in 10 minutes.

When I got off the shuttle I ran to a store, grabbed a cellophane slop sandwich (I was STARVED at that point) and ran on toward the gate.  I should have realized they were on Saudi time.  I arrived with literaly 1 minute to spare (according to scheduled time), only to find out they weren’t going to board for 10 minutes…maybe 30.  It turned out to be closer to 60 minutes.  I almost felt as if I was back in Riyadh.

The Saudia flight was quite pleasant, actually.  They treat their customers very well.  The food (at least from Dulles) was very good.  There were videos in the seat backs, which provided a good selection of entertainment.  And, best of all, there were lots of empty seats, which the flight attendants encouraged us to turn into beds.  There was a first for me, too.  I had never before flown on an airplane with a mosque onboard.  I can’t say that now.  Back in the tail section, they had an area set aside for prayers.  The video screen always showed, if you looked for it, which direction – in relationship to the plane’s orientation – Mecca lay.  So, there was never any question about which direction prayer should be directed.

The flight landed first in Jeddah, where we sat on the plane for about an hour.  Then, on to Riyadh.  After nearly 24 hours of being in an airport or being in-flight, I have to admit that I was quite glad to be back at my apartment.

Isn’t international travel glamorous?   ;-)

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A White Christmas

February 20, 2009 at 8:37 am (Expatriate, Oregon, Riyadh, Saudi Arabia)

The last couple of months have been quite busy.

Things at work are a tad dicey at the moment.  We’re having problems getting our project to work in a production environment, which means revenues are tight, which means there is a lot of stress.   A lot of stress.  Of course, part of my job as a manager is to be positive and sell it to the folks in the trenches.  I try to do be as honest as I can with the guys – they deserve that.  But, I do try to point out the good things, too.  A pessimistic work crew can be a serious problem.  Everyone is working so hard; they’re really good guys.  Let’s hope we can turn a corner here very soon.

I made the trip home for the Holidays.  What a great trip it was, too!  I loved being able to spend so much time with Cristina.  We had a very low-key Christmas, which was just fine with me.  Although, we did make a couple of trips to The Big City for some Christmas purchases, we stayed at home (or over at her parents’ house) for the most part.  I have an affection not only for my wife, but for my trees, the cats, and the vicious (not really) little Cairn Terrier who comprise my household.

I arrived to snow.  Lots of snow.  Well, relatively speaking.  We had 9″ of snow on the ground at the house, when I got home – and it kept snowing.  We only caught the edge of the huge winter storm that debilitated the State of Washington during the Holidays.  Relative to them, we got a dusting.  But, still, it was a large amount of snow for us.  And, cold. Very, very cold.

When I was growing up in Texas, it only snowed on Christmas in 1963, and I don’t remember that very well.  We would always hope for a White Christmas.  Instead, there would always be a dump of 1″ – 2″ on December 26th.  This happened pretty regularly.  Of course, the first Christmas I spent away from home (1983), they had a White Christmas.  So, I had just about given up on a White Christmas for myself.

On Christmas Eve, we took the folks to Church for services, and it was frigid but clear when we went inside.  But, when we came back out, it was raining.  As cold as it was, rain is a pretty good indicator that there will be snow to follow shortly.  We took Cristina’s parents home and got them settled in; then, we headed home.  Our place is about 600 feet higher than town.  The house sits just short of 1,000 feet, while the back part of the property is a bit above 1,000 feet.  As we started the ascent to the house, the snow kicked in, and by the time we got to the house, it was snowing pretty good.  Then, it died off.  Then, it started again.  Then, we went to bed.

When we got up the next morning, the place was covered with about 2″ of snow.  I had my first ever White Christmas.  I was ecstatic.  I was ecstatic despite having to get up and drive in to get to our Christmas dinner at my in-laws’ place.  It was beautiful!

I know that those who’ve been inundated by snow this year are rolling their eyes and shaking their heads.  But, for me it was one of the best things that had ever happened during any Holiday period.

One of the NOT best things came when Cristina’s mom fell, and we had to take her to the hospital, where she stayed for about two weeks past when I had to return back to KSA.  She has recovered, now, and she appears to be doing very well.  She’s a pretty tough and resilient lady.  :-)

As always, returning was a tough thing to do.  But, in this economy, we consider ourselves blessed just to have a job and source of income.  I hope all who read this can say the same thing.

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In The World of Backhanded Compliments

February 20, 2009 at 8:02 am (Expatriate, Riyadh, Saudi Arabia)

I can’t decide whether to be amused or offended by this one.  I guess I’ll go with amused.

Most Westerners who work in Riyadh live in residential compounds, and the
compounds usually have a little mini-store, a barber/hairstylist, and a
few other little amenities.  These are all run by South Asians (usually
Pakistani or Bengali ) or by Filipinos.  Not all of these cultures
require the same sense of decorum we Westerners often expect, which can
lead to some awkward moments.  Not saying it’s right or wrong, just different.

So, I went to get my haircut yesterday.  This Filipino guy is the
barber, and he goes, “It’s been a long time since you have been in
here.  You used to weigh a lot more.”

“Yes, I did. I have lost over 20 pounds since I last saw you.”

“Ahhh!  Yes! Yes!  Your face used to look like this!”  Then, he
proceeded to pucker up his lips and blow up his face like a puffer fish.

I didn’t know whether to burst out laughing or to smack him in the head.

In the end, I decided to take a backhanded compliment where I could get
it.

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